Domestic abuse and homelessness
Domestic abuse includes any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse. The abuse can be psychological, physical, sexual, financial, or emotional.
Domestic abuse can happen between two people who are or were intimate partners or family members, regardless of their gender or sexuality.
If you are in fear of a partner, ex-partner or member of your family do they:
- call you names and make you feel bad about yourself?
- make you afraid by threatening you or your children?
- behave violently towards you?
- stop you seeing your friends or family?
- keep your money?
- harm you or make you feel you could be seriously harmed?
If the answer to some of these questions is yes you might be experiencing domestic abuse.
Get help now
You can contact us and speak with a housing options advisor about how they can help you. To make an appointment please ring 01539 793 199 during office hours or in an emergency out of office hours please ring 0870 428 6905.
Support in South Lakeland
Springfield Hostel provide refuge accommodation and a community support service for people affected by domestic abuse. You can call them on 01539 726 171 or email: email@example.com
Victim Support provide specialist support and assistance to people who are experiencing domestic abuse and/or sexual abuse or who have experienced it in the past in Cumbria. You can call them on 0300 303 0157 or email: firstname.lastname@example.org
The Birchall Trust is a counselling service that provides free one to one weekly sessions to male and females of all ages who have experienced rape or sexual abuse in South Cumbria. You can contact them on 01229 820 828 / 07860 025 347 or by emailing: email@example.com
Cumbria County Council domestic abuse support provides specific advice for people who are or have been affected by domestic abuse.
You can contact the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247 if you're a woman experiencing domestic abuse. You can talk confidentially to someone about your situation and to find out what your options are. Womens aid also provides online advice and support.
If you are a man experiencing domestic abuse there are online services available through Men's Advice Line. Alternatively, you can call them on 0808 801 0327.
If you are in a same-sex relationship you can call the National LGBT Domestic Violence Helpline on 0800 999 5428. or online support is available from Galop.
Samaritans provide a variety of online support services and if you feel in despair and want someone to listen to you and provide emotional support call them on 08457 90 90 90. Call the police on 999 if:
- your personal safety is threatened
- you are at risk of assault or injury
- in an emergency
Leaving home immediately
If you have to leave your property immediately you may be placed in temporary accommodation by South Lakeland District Council whilst we look at what options there may be available for you dependant on your circumstances.
Not everyone is entitled to emergency accommodation so you may wish to look at other options such as staying with friends or relatives while you think about what to do next or try to find a place in a refuge.
Take some essentials with you such as a change of clothes, toiletries and any medication you need to take regularly. Try to bring important items such as your passport, bank and credit cards and mobile phone.
Don't make a decision to give up your home permanently until you have spoken to an adviser and considered all your options.
Get homelessness help
You can apply to our Housing Options Service as a homeless person if you can't stay in your home.
We have to give you advice about finding somewhere to live. Some people are entitled to emergency accommodation. You will be asked to provide details of your situation. You may be asked for supporting evidence, which could include details and dates of incidents. You can take a friend or an adviser with you for support.
Contact Civil Legal Advice on 0345 345 4 345 if you are entitled to legal aid.
Use Shelter's directory to find an adviser in your area.
Help from social services/children's services
Some people may be entitled to help from the council's social services department. Social services might be able to help if you:
- are elderly
- have children living with you
- are under the age of 18
- have left care (or about to do so)
- are in poor health
- have a physical or learning disability
Social services may be able to help by finding accommodation for you, paying for a deposit or providing financial support.
There are no rules about the kind of help social services have to provide.
Refuges for women
Women experiencing domestic abuse may be able to stay in a women's refuge. Some refuges are specifically for women from certain backgrounds, such as Irish or Asian women.
Staff at refuges can give you advice about your situation.
Contact the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247 for more information about refuges.
Refuges for men
If you are man who has to leave home because of domestic abuse, you can make a homeless application to our housing options team.
There is limited specialist housing for men experiencing domestic abuse.
Contact a Shelter advice centre or Citizens Advice to check what help is available.
Use Shelter's directory to find help in your area.
Help for children and young people
If you or someone else in your family is being hurt at home, you may not be sure what you can do about it. Domestic abuse is not your fault and you won't get into trouble for telling someone about it.
The first thing is to tell someone else about what is happening to you. You can tell a teacher, a neighbour, a friend or a friend's parent.
You can call Childline on 0800 1111 for free. They won't tell anyone else you are calling unless you are in immediate danger. They can tell you about places where you can get help.
The Hide Out provides information about children, young people and domestic abuse and violence.
Get more help
If you need more help call the Shelter advice line on 0808 800 4444.
The Housing Options Service confirms whatever you discuss with us will always remain completely confidential.